The Word for 2014

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“Life” is a fine word. But it’s not what I chose.

Every New Year’s Eve, one of my friends and her sisters each choose a word they intend to make their personal theme for the new year.

“It’s a word we want to live by or fulfill in the new year,” she said. “Something we want to do, have, or be.”

“I know mine already… but I’m curious about what you would choose. If you could pick one word to explain what you want this next year, what would it be?”

I thought it was an interesting question.

And despite my tendency to be impulsive, I wanted to put some thought into it.

I wrote down different words all night. A quiet New Year’s Eve at home. There may come a day when I will leave my son with a sitter during the 50 percent of his life that I get to see him now. But it was never going to be in 2013.

So, I skipped the parties this year on what is traditionally my favorite party night of the year.

I regret nothing.

This is my first New Year’s Day not feeling hung over in, literally, as long as I can remember. I didn’t have a drop last night.

I set my alarm clock to wake me at 11:45 p.m. With my son asleep next to me, I watched the television coverage of the ball dropping in Times Square.

Mind clear.

Heart full.

All I did was think about who and what I want to be. How I’m going to use 2014 as the springboard to the rest of my life.

What word would I choose?

Words Matter

So many of you are writers. So you know they matter.

The things we speak.

The things we write.

While I’m forever guilty of writing quick first drafts and clicking ‘Publish,’ the best of us pore over each sentence on the really important stuff. Each word.

Once in a while when I’m writing at work, I’ll pop open the thesaurus. I rarely use it, but once in a while, in marketing, I believe the perfect word is out there waiting for us to find.

The magic words. The hypnotic ones. The ones that sell.

Is that thing good? Or is it delightful?

Is that product durable? Or is it robust?

Is that woman pretty? Or is she exquisite? Ravishing? Bewitching? Angelic?

Choosing words isn’t so different than choosing the perfect seasoning for your food. Or choosing the optimum wine to drink with it.

A Barolo or Cabernet Franc?

A Shiraz or Malbec?

A Pinot Noir or Zinfandel?

They are all red wines. Good ones. But they also all have their own unique personalities and characteristics.

Not unlike my list of words. Many of them mean almost the same thing. All of them play nicely together.

But there can be only one.

I want to choose wisely. Get it right the first time. The perfect word.

The Candidates

I wrote down several.

Adapt.

Live.

Grow.

Discover.

Win.

Achieve.

Triumph.

Evolve.

Succeed.

Earn.

Realize.

Build.

Complete.

Hope.

Conquer.

Overcome.

Hope” is my favorite word. And it’s my favorite idea.

Hopelessness is a disease I never intend to contract.

There is no situation, good or bad, in which I can justify abandoning hope for a better tomorrow.

The anticipation of an amazing thing is one of the underrated experiences we are allowed as human beings. And with hope, I am always trying to feel that anticipation. That childlike feeling of eagerly awaiting something magnificent.

I feel it more, right now, than any other day I’ve written here.

Call it foolishness. Say January 1 is just another day. You’re entitled to that.

But what I see is a fresh canvas. A blank sheet of paper. A clean slate on which to start a journey.

Hope lives in all that white space. In the unknown. And I am drinking it up on this quiet, snowy morning.

Two words stand out.

Grow and Achieve.

But as a guy who values efficiency—two birds with one stone, and all that—my word for 2014 is: Achieve.

Because achievement can only occur if I actually grow and display that growth through my daily actions.

Achieve.

It’s a good word. It’s not exotic. It’s not big. Everyone knows what it means.

And it covers every facet of my life—the four pillars of balance, like legs on a table.

Mental health.

Physical health.

Spiritual health.

Emotional health.

One puts in the right effort into each leg of the table, and you have something balanced. Something sturdy. Perhaps even something beautiful.

I may not meet all of my goals for 2014.

But there absolutely will be achievement in this new year.

As always, I will look forward to sharing them with you.

What word might you choose?

Wishing you a very happy and blessed New Year. And for all those you love. And for all those they love.

Today, we begin.

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38 thoughts on “The Word for 2014

  1. Dearest Matt,
    Wishing You A Very Happy New Year, Filled With All Your Heart Desires ,🎉
    Your Friend,
    Anastasia

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  2. mewhoami says:

    Achieve – it sums up everything. That’s a great word, Matt. I suppose mine would be, live.

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  3. Mendy Kelley says:

    Great list of words, so many to chose from. My 2014 word is Consistent. This is my first year participating in One Word arena and am excited to see how the year unfolds…one day at a time. I wish you all that you “hope” for in the coming year and receive more than you could imagine. My best for a great 2014!!!

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  4. My word before I read your list is Hope. That is what I want to hold close in 2014. Hope for a better today, hope for a better tomorrow. I know I will achieve. I have goals, dreams. Hope is like the gasoline that fuels the desire to take action towards the goals. Nothing will stop me…I left all the negative thoughts and feelings back in 2013. I love that you rang in the New Year with your peacefully sleeping son. I didn’t have a drop last night either. I am so happy I made that choice.

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    • Matt says:

      :)

      It’s such a perfect thing, hope. Nothing can kill it.

      It can thrive in the harshest of environments.

      It can move mountains.

      Here’s to you and choosing hope every day in this new year. :)

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  5. In 2012 I had a complete breakdown and attempted to end my own life. 2013 was a year of recovery, learning to deal with my past and finding ways to cope with the future. My word for 2014 has to be ‘dreams’ because for the first time in a long time, I finally have some and can move towards fulfilling them.

    Great post, thank you!

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    • Matt says:

      :)

      Thank you for being here. I admire your bravery and your strength to choose hope very, very much.

      Here’s to 2014. I’m so grateful that you’re here to read this and say hi.

      Happy New Year. :)

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    • phoenixasubbie says:

      Your honesty and courage is beautiful, and inspiring. I hope all your dreams come true. XX

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  6. Sandy Sue says:

    This is a powerful exercise. What is our intent starting out this new year. What seed do we want to plant now. Mine is “Thrive.”

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  7. Three words stood out for me : win, triumph, overcome. Well, I have just come through a severe bout of depression (my old word was hope). This year I start my Bachelors degree majoring in media and film. I am very nervous, this is out of my comfort zone. It’s also something I want to do. So, out of those 3 words overcome stands out for me. Overcome illness, over the pain I have gone through, to finally come out on top despite it all. So very nervous. Happy New Year Matt x

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  8. Dawn says:

    I really wouldn’t have thought to put it into one word, but after viewing your list I would have to say the one that stands out to me…that seems to incorporate what I am looking forward to this coming year would be Discover.
    It’ll be fun to see how that word unfolds for me.

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    • Matt says:

      While I wouldn’t want to encourage anyone to limit themselves to my tiny list, I would never begrudge you the opportunity to choose Discover.

      Another favorite word.

      Because it’s awesome.

      Happy New Year, Dawn.

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  9. I loved this post, thank you for writing it!

    Hope is everything.

    For me, I think it has to be Courage. Not a verb, I know!

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  10. Hope always but for 2014: fortitude.

    Lovely post Matt. Reminds me a little of my metaphor fetish but in a singular word :)

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  11. Mine is “healing.” After a broken leg and broken engagement in 2013, I have some significant mending to do. Be well, Matt.
    Laura

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  12. Decided today to change mine to Stay Strong.

    Thanks again for this post. Obviously it has me thinking. And I wish you the best in 2014.

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  13. mel says:

    Believe. This is the year I believe in myself, my family, my future… I believe I can be not only better, but the best I have ever been. I believe I can stop being bad, and be very, very good. :) I believe in me.

    As always, Matt, you are an inspiration. Thank you for being such a great writer and sharing your life with us. I like your word, and I Believe you can achieve anything you set your mind to.

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  14. bgoffe2013 says:

    Great idea!
    I never make New Year resolutions, but choosing a word for a new year makes sense to me.
    I thought about this on my plane trip back home yesterday and decided that I should first find a word for the last few and then pick.

    Here’s my list:
    2011 Write
    2012 Survive
    2013 Rebuild
    2014 Blissful

    I just read the book “Secret HERO” by Rhonda Byrne, so I decided to make a big optimistic choice for this year.

    Happy New Year!

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  15. Missed your blog. My word is hope. Hoping that year is yours and you will own it. Ivan

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  16. I love the idea of choosing one word for the New Year…much better than coming up with resolutions…of course….the “one word” could also be “resolve”. ;) I need to ponder this….not exactly sure which word I would choose, although I can list several. Cynically I’d pick “survive”, but that’s what I did for 2013, so the thriving optimist inside of me can”t live with that, lol. Going to think and get back to you on it. And, achieve is a fabulous and worthy word for you in 2014! Yay, and here’s to it! XO-SWM

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  17. My word for 2014 – Fearless
    I write about fearless living, and advocate the Art of Fearless Living in my blog. It is because of my fear that I have lost so much in the past, and hurt others as well. So, it will have to be fearless – fearless in love, in hope, to dream, to believe in faith and humanity, fearless in being a better me than the one in 2013. So, I take this opportunity to wish you a fearless 2014. May you achieve every goal you set yourself this year and love the life you live :)

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