Women

How Accidental Sexism Ruined My Marriage (and Might be Ruining Yours)
I did, said, and believed things throughout my youth and marriage that were totally sexist—even though I didn’t view them…
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Some People Are Women, Others Are Men, and it’s Getting Hard to Talk About
My most popular articles tell true stories about my failed marriage and also tend to include a bunch of my…
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How to Seduce Your Wife (Because Your Old Single-Guy Tactics Won’t Work)
Google processes more than 60,000 internet searches every second, or nearly 6 billion per day, and the Nos. 1 and…
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I Didn’t Trust My Wife Long Before She Stopped Trusting Me
I trusted my wife with everything I thought was important. I trusted her with everything that mattered to me. I…
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Can Male Attractiveness and Good Husbandry Coexist?
When I was a kid, I liked big two-story houses with full basements better than other home designs. Three stories…
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What Men Should Learn From Straight Women Choosing Other Women
I think women, with increasing frequency, are choosing romantic relationships with other women over men because of how poorly men…
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Guest Post: The Thing All Women Do That You Don’t Know About
Editor’s Note: I’m not going to hold men’s feet to the fire for finding women attractive, and acting like it.…
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Decent Men in Indecent Times: Rape, Sex & Locker Room Talk
Not long before my high school graduation, one of my friends said another one of my friends raped her. No…
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You Don’t Understand Me for the Same Reason Couples Divorce
I wrote a post exactly three months ago today which was so popular and relatable to the average married couple…
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The 4 Ways Women Can Help Save Marriages
Someone asked: “I dont have a failed marriage, but I do have a failed engagement. We were together for 6…
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