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The 3 Tiers of Lying and How Well-Intentioned Lies Can Still Destroy Relationships
How many times have you lied to people you genuinely love and respect in the past few days? If someone…
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Broken Promises Ended My Marriage—Can Keeping Them Save Yours?
I break promises. I break promises, and then other people sometimes feel let down or betrayed, and then maybe I…
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What You Don’t Know Actually Can Hurt You
Disclaimer: I might be clinically insane. That needs to be said upfront, because it’s mathematically possible and I have no…
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Maybe Jesus Was a Lousy Carpenter
I don’t know whether things like building inspectors or mechanisms for people to leave positive and negative customer reviews existed in…
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What Will I Tell My Son To Help Him Avoid Divorce?
Lynda asked: “My question for you is: what are you going to say to your son to teach him how…
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Bad News: You Two Probably Shouldn’t Be Dating
Your relationship is probably doomed. I’m sorry, but it’s true. I’m just playing the percentages. Half of all marriages will…
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You Don’t Know Me
At work I write subject lines and email copy designed to get people to open my company’s emails and buy…
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The Liar, Liar, Pants on Fire Routine
There’s a guy. I don’t know him. He recently started dating a girl. And I know her well enough to…
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