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I took down the MBTTTR “Ask Me Stuff” page because someone email-yelled at me about a large amount of unanswered…
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The One Where I Defend My Ideas Against Charges of Sexism and a Lack of Credibility
Mary said: It’s still an extremely negative piece that includes such statements as decent men ‘trying their God’s honest best…
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I Didn’t Trust My Wife Long Before She Stopped Trusting Me
I trusted my wife with everything I thought was important. I trusted her with everything that mattered to me. I…
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How to Have a Good-Enough Relationship
“What *is* enough?” she asked. Fair question, I thought, since I’d just written a list of things that WERE NOT…
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Do We Need Marriage?
Julia asked: “I’m one year post-divorce and still grappling with the idea of ever marrying again. I used to feel…
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It Doesn’t Jive Because We’d Just Assume Do Things the Wrong Way
Donkey wrote: “Matt has a post about leaving his crying wife in the hospital after giving birth/having a C-section. Lisa…
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Who is Worthy of Your Love?
monthemoon asked (read the full comment here): “Hi Matt! I’ve been reading your blog for a few months now, just…
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How I Avoided Bitterness After Divorce
Lilly asked: My main question is how did you keep yourself from becoming bitter toward life and women? Not all men…
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Do Bad Husbands Ever Really Change?
Blackolives wrote: “Found your Huffpo ‘dishes’ post earlier today. Still laughing at how an appalling number of people didn’t get…
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The 4 Ways Women Can Help Save Marriages
Someone asked: “I dont have a failed marriage, but I do have a failed engagement. We were together for 6…
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