Stuff I Need Help With

Please Help Me Answer These Important Questions
Of the many questions sent to my email inbox (some of which go unanswered—I’m so sorry for that), there are…
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What’s Next For MBTTTR?
“Shit or get off the pot,” is a fairly common idiom where I’m from. Aside from evoking troubling images of…
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A Blog Vacation
I try to explain how it works in my head but most people don’t or can’t understand. It’s probably really…
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Should I Be Afraid to Publish My Name?, Vol. 2
I had never considered using a pen name. Not really. I don’t know why. Maybe vanity. Maybe I wanted my…
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Should I Be Afraid to Publish My Name?
Most of you have no idea who I am (and don’t care). Some of you know my name is Matt.…
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ADHD is Real and I Have It
I’ve always been this way, so I never bothered to consider something might be wrong. It’s not that I procrastinate…
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I Heard Someone Upstairs When No One Else Was Home
It was about 10 p.m. last night when my friend dropped me off at home. I unlocked my back door,…
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“Why the hell not?”
I’m reading The Catcher in the Rye for the first time. Holden Caulfield is the protagonist, and while we don’t…
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I Don’t Want to be a Divorce Blogger 
I don’t know what to write about. I don’t just mean right now, even though that’s also true. I mean…
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Thermometers vs. Thermostats: You Don’t Have to be a Bystander
The black smoke was unmissable against the stark gray backdrop of winter. Something on the back of an RV had…
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